They say that men love eyes, that for them a big role is played by a woman’s appearance. But this is far from true. There are things that are far from slimness, long hair and firm breasts, but at the same time can cause the desire for intimacy or strengthen it already in the process of receiving pleasure.
Openness
Men love open, sincere women who do not hide their feelings. And this applies to both passionate nights and simple communication. Stiffness and stiffness, which is often confused with real modesty, unfortunately, only hinders and scares men away. They like to be trusted both as a person and as a sexual partner. But when a girl averts her gaze, especially during lovemaking, it is read as stiffness. This is how the thread of intimacy that connects people is torn and lost.
Leadership transfer
Any man, regardless of age, social status and financial status, wants to lead in a couple. He realizes that you probably don’t have him first, but he wants to distinguish himself in the line of admirers. So give him a chance to be the best at something! Competently emphasize that your partner gave unforgettable emotions. But do not compare him with anyone else. Forget the phrase: “You were the best!” It immediately suggests the thought: “And the best among whom?” No, a man will not tolerate comparisons and himself in the list of your fans. He must become the one and only, and not the third from the bottom in the right column. And, of course, let in amorous games leads your favorite. Do not seek to command in bed, it can repel your chosen one.
Love for your body
Surely you have seen strange, in your opinion, couples. He, beautiful, like a Greek Apollo, and she … a little overweight, funny, with ridiculous hair and unfortunate shoes on an old-fashioned heel. “What does he see in her?” — you exclaimed mentally. However, in this case, it is worth reconstructing the question, “Why is she so confident?” Most likely because she loves her body in every condition and weight. Accepting your body endows any woman with sex appeal and energy that attracts the opposite sex. Love your body and you will love sex. And after that, like bees on flowers, your admirers will descend. And among them will definitely be the one you have been waiting for so long.
Taking the initiative in bed
Remember that a man likes to feel like a leader in the relationship and in sex? (see point 2) For a while forget about it! You can occasionally intercept the initiative in bed. The main thing is not to realize it axe, as if the head of the party committee: “So, so, comrade! We voted and decided that today the girls are on top!” No, this will only scare off your partner. Try to easily and gracefully hint about your desires. During foreplay, whisper that you wouldn’t mind being a horsewoman tonight. Or determine the place of lovemaking, changing the usual environment of the bedroom, for example, in the bathroom. Your chosen one will be only in favor if you offer something new or for a while take the place of the leader. After all, men are also tired after work and sometimes want to try on the role of receiving caresses
Moment of foreplay
Yes, men, spreading rumors that they are always ready for sex, have misled many women. Therefore, there is still an opinion that representatives of the stronger sex foreplay is not important, they get excited instantly. But all this is far from the truth. Each organism is unique, and situations are even more so. And your partner needs some time to ignite desire, especially if fatigue and chronic stress. Also matters and the age of the partner, and his physical health. In general, do not neglect the preliminary caresses. They can be long or short enough, but do not discount foreplay. It will turn on both you and your lover, making the night of love unforgettable
An orgasm for her
And another misconception about the opposite sex. Does it seem to you that he is trying solely for his orgasm? Well, you really do! Rarely do men ignore the female orgasm, except for the most hardened egoists. A normal partner, on the contrary, will not be fully satisfied if his woman has not reached the peak of pleasure. So do not hesitate to talk about your desires, show what turns you on, suggest positions in which you are at the top of bliss. Believe me, men keep count of orgasms, only female orgasms. Bringing their ladies to ecstasy, they write their names in the ranks of heroes of the sexual front, which has a positive effect on self-esteem
Fantasy fulfillment
Sex is impossible without satisfying some fantasies, so talk to your partner about it. What if he dreams of getting into bed a cute stewardess or a strict teacher? Or maybe he’d like to try a new position or use one of your intimate toys? Don’t be in a hurry to take your man’s wishes to heart. If they do not go against your moral principles, then … And why not? Only “agree on the shore” that your refusal of certain types of pleasure should not cause any offense and even more so the breakup. This is an honest and frank conversation about sexual fantasies, and they are a voluntary matter
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